Art of saying NO

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"My helpfulness is often regarded as my weakness

Coz I can't say no and that's my flaw"




As the word h[u-man] says, it has always an urge to work for others(you). A characteristic which every folk should possess is being helpful to the needy. It is the duty of one human towards other. 


But the human nature also is the most greedy and lazy one. It never fails to take advantage of others. A human should be clever enough to differentiate between the people who really need help and the ones who take advantage of their nature.


Every person should develop the art of saying NO, otherwise in the world full of needy you will be standing as one distributing the help and will blend with sand that way. Anything in excess is harmful. Denying is an art which should be developed in every human. 

It doesn't mean to hurt others feelings but it even doesn't mean to give all of yourself to others who don't deserve. Denying in a manner that others are not offended and the same doesn't haunt you in dreams is a skill. Being helpful is not bad but to bequeath oneself to inappropriate is. It is not innocence, it is foolishness.

Know where to say YES and where to say NO. The first person important is you. Cherish yourself and then take the responsibility of helping the needy. It is when you are fit, you can help others. Know your worth. Start denying negative and undeserved people in your life. Stay strong. Stay humble. 


"I got my life to live
Staying away from the negative
And now I repudiate
To free myself for idle and inflate"

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